Should I trust the rearing grandparents?

Experience of generations. Indeed, the child needs to our live communication. Let's chat, talk with rebenock since birth always, even if it is 25-30 years. But, unfortunately, the only communication is difficult to decide all accumulated problems. This is only the first, the most difficult step. What's next? And then let's look deeper into your family. Very often many conflicts in the family go out of your relationship with parents. The grandparents.

Someone would say that this is a problem of generations. Especially becomes hard, if together live or spend large amounts of their time at once three generations: we, our children and our parents. We do not understand our children, we, at the same time, we may not always agree with our parents, but they will neurocognitive vzdragivaut from our upbringing. This cycle. And really want to have all been obedient children, strong nerves and remarkable understanding parent.But not always so.

Let us recall and examine how you and your parents always understood and understand each other? You won't have conflicts or understatement? Maybe you're somewhere in the heart hurt or angry at keep father or mother?Any child something displeased in upbringing, which he gave to his parents. We would like to change something, maybe we are comfortable with, but we do the conclusions and
educators, bring to life what was lacking? Our children are a mirror of ourselves.  Once we were all children. Take a look around. How many people around us? Countless. And several billion people on Earth!And just think about, they all have parents who, in turn, have their own perspectives on education, development, time her children. Someone grows a successful and happy, and someone pessimist and a loser.  It all begins in childhood.

And our parents had made the greatest contribution to our personality, character, willingness to learn, to learn all new, our inner world. Now that we've grown, we are reaping the writings of our moms and dads. The same will be with our children.They grow up and tell us what we were doing good, bad, and what better and do more! All in different situations. All different children, and we are also very different. But the situation of misunderstanding between us and our children can be solved.

I must confess that my views on education was not always coincide with the opinion of my mom. She thinks I am "the carelessly, not because it would have liked. My child is not sitting on site 24 hours a day, as I was once in childhood. Yes, our views on education, but I am very grateful to my parents for everything they did for me and continue to do for their grandchildren. Probably not all that your parents felt very correct in your childhood, was correct. But never exclude foster parents of your children. Today very often young family lives separately from grandparents, who are excluded from education, grandchildren, and then any intervention perceived disrespect.Remember that the grandparents can give your child a culture, wisdom, warmth and kindness. This is the attitude that there is no substitute. Intergenerational Relationships will give you and your children are not replaceable rich emotional experience. Let all the negative emotions and memories of their childhood.Keep only the good and really useful, something that can assist you in educating their children.

Don't keep evil for their parents as they are not.Thank them for everything they did for you, even if you somehow do not agree.Believe me, they did everything they could.Love your parents, respect them, be grateful.